You've Tried Everything And Part of You Is Scared That Nothing Is Going to Work.
We hear that a lot. And here's what we've learned after years of coaching couples through hard seasons most programs fail not because couples don't try hard enough, but because the coaching was never built around their specific season and patterns. Private coaching with Jason and Shelly changes that. Using your Relational Rhythms Assessment as our foundation, every session is customized entirely around your unique story, your season, and exactly where your marriage needs the most support right now.
Free application. No payment required.
Restoring Sanctuary in Your Marriage,
One Season at a Time
There's a specific kind of exhaustion that comes from feeling unsafe in your own marriage. Not unsafe in a dramatic way just the quiet kind. Where you measure your words before you say them. Where you brace for the reaction before it comes. Where you've stopped reaching out because you're not sure what you'll get back.
That's not who you are. And that's not what your marriage has to be.
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Sanctuary is possible. Not as a distant dream but as something you can actually build, one rhythm at a time, with the right guide walking alongside you through every season.
That's what we do.
Your Story Stays Yours.
Private coaching is a closed, confidential space built entirely for you and your spouse. No shared group setting. No wondering who else is listening. Just a safe, focused environment where your most personal conversations stay exactly where they belong.
Some Seasons Are Too Personal for a Group Setting.
Built Around Your Data Not a Generic Framework.
Using your Relational Rhythms Assessment as our foundation, every session is customized around your specific patterns, your season, and your unique relational data. You're not getting the same coaching as every other couple. You're getting coaching built entirely around you.
Move at the Speed Your Marriage Needs.
Private coaching moves at your pace — not the pace of a group. If you need to go deeper on something, we go deeper. If you need to move faster, we move faster. This is your journey and every session is designed around exactly where you are right now.
Everything You Need to Move Through This Season,
Nothing You Don't.
Private coaching with Jason and Shelly is high touch, real time, and built entirely around you. Here's exactly what's included in every private coaching engagement.
4, 6, or 8 Live Coaching Sessions via Zoom — Focused, structured sessions built entirely around your unique story, your season, and your specific relational patterns. No generic agendas — every session starts where you are right now.
Assessment Driven Customization — Your Relational Rhythms Assessment gives us a real time snapshot of your marriage before we ever meet, so we show up to session one already knowing your patterns, your season, and exactly where to focus.
Direct Texting Support Between Sessions — Life doesn't wait for your next call. Between sessions you have direct access to Jason and Shelly for real time support, questions, and guidance when you need it most.
Personalized Resources and Tools — Every resource, exercise, and tool is curated specifically for your season and your patterns — not pulled from a generic library built for every couple.
Weekly Application Exercises — The work doesn't stay in the session. Weekly application exercises bring the coaching into your daily life so new rhythms become real habits — not just good intentions.
Weekly Growth Evaluation — Every week we assess where you are, what's shifting, and what's next so you always have clarity on your progress and your path forward.
A Calm Clinically Informed Environment — Every session is grounded in nervous system awareness, emotional safety, and the New Rhythm Method so both partners feel heard, guided, and supported without blame or judgment.
Private Coaching Is for the Couple Who Is Done Settling for Almost.
You've tried things that almost worked. You've been in rooms literally or figuratively where the advice was good but it wasn't quite yours. Where the framework made sense but didn't quite fit your season. Where you left with insight but not with change.
Private coaching is for the couple who is done with almost.
This is for you if you're private and need a safe, confidential space to do the real work. If you're high achieving and you want the most focused, personalized investment available. If your season is complex and you need a coach who already knows your story before the first session begins. If you're ready to stop circling the same patterns and start building something that actually lasts. If any of that sounds like you — you're in exactly the right place.
Apply
Step 01
Start by sharing a little about where you are in your marriage season and what you're hoping to restore or build. The application is free, short, and completely obligation free. It simply helps us understand your story before we connect so we can show up to your Clarity Call already knowing the landscape of where you are.
Starting Is Simpler Than You Think
We've designed every step of this process to feel as safe and pressure free as possible. There is no obligation at any point. The only goal is clarity for you and for us.
Clarity Call
Step 02
This is a warm low pressure conversation not a sales pitch. We'll listen to your story, answer your questions honestly, and discern together whether private coaching and the New Rhythm Method are the right fit for your season right now. If coaching isn't the right next step for you we'll tell you that honestly and point you toward what is.
Coaching
Step 03
If private coaching feels like the right fit for both of us we'll design a personalized engagement built entirely around your season, your assessment results, and your specific goals. Then the real work begins and we'll be with you every single step of the way.
Real Couples. Real Seasons. Real Change.
"I finally understood why we kept having the same fight."
I thought we had a communication problem but this helped me see the pattern underneath it. For the first time I didn't feel blamed or defensive I felt clear. The structure changed how I respond in the moment not just how I think about it later.
— Sara
"I didn't feel attacked or fixed."
What surprised me most was how practical this was. It wasn't about digging up the past it was about changing what we do when things start going sideways. That alone shifted the tone in our marriage.
— Jim
Your Most Important Relationship Deserves Your Most Intentional Investment.
Private coaching is our highest level of personalized support and it's priced to reflect the depth, customization, and real time access that comes with it.
We offer 4, 6, and 8 week engagements designed around your specific season and goals. Investment varies based on the length and structure of your engagement and is discussed transparently during your free Clarity Call after we've had a chance to understand your story and design the right experience for you. There are no surprises and no pressure. Just an honest conversation about whether this is the right fit for your season right now.
Here's what we want you to know before you apply: This is not a luxury. It's a decision to stop drifting and start building something intentional with a dedicated guide who already knows your marriage before the first session begins. Most couples spend years trying to figure it out alone. The ones who invest in the right support at the right season move faster, go deeper, and build something that actually lasts. When you're ready to have that conversation we'll be here.
You've Read This Far for a Reason.
Something brought you here today. Something made you keep reading. And if you've made it to the bottom of this page part of you already knows this is the right next step.
You don't have to have it all figured out before you apply. You don't have to be in crisis. You don't have to be certain. You just have to be willing to have an honest conversation about where you are and what's possible from here. The application is free. The Clarity Call is free. And there is zero obligation at any point in the process. The only thing it costs you is five minutes to share your story. We'll take it from there.
"Your marriage doesn't need more effort. It needs a new rhythm. Whenever you're ready to find yours — we'll be here."
— Jason & Shelly